I feel your pain. not as badly as you but dang. sold my 2002 VFR800 w/ 20k miles. it wasn't perfect mind you, but it did run quite well. New owner crashed it 10 days later OTW to the BRC track on base. Guy's first bike, first time on a bike, and totally gets it out of shape at a stop sign. Don't know exactly what happened, but evidently, all controls were involved at once. forks twisted, plastics on left side toast, broken peg, scratched exhaust and a broken ankle. he gave it to one of our coworkers who put it back together just before the new owner got moved to Florida.
GL on next purchase.